Not enough of them are enough for me. Now that we have established that the Enneagram is the best method for identifying all of the different personality types, let’s get started.
After reviewing the previous three responses that you have got, V Johnson, I believe that I am able to assist you in a somewhat more significant way.
First of all, you are correct in at least some respects. Enneagram 8s, often known as leaders, have the potential to be sociopathic (without empathy and conscience) and apathetic (don’t care or disconnected), according to the perspective of an Enneagram Type 3: Achiever.
Did you know that every Enneagram type has a type that matches their arch-enemy? The numbers 8 and 3 come up rather often, and there is a solid explanation behind this. The numbers 8 and 3 are both unquestionably potent and fiery; they are both natural leaders and people who move and disturb things. In point of fact, they are able to accomplish the same kinds of accomplishment, but via a variety of different approaches. Permit me to expand.
To begin, I would like to invite you to the Enneagram:
It is possible for the nine personality types to collaborate with one another rather than compete with one another if we all handle this situation correctly. Do you agree? Every one of us has our own unique set of strengths, limitations, and deficiencies. Even the number three has its flaws. Do you agree? On the other hand, I am aware that this is equivalent to arguing that 1+1 equals 4 — for a 3!
Among the nine personality types, I am a peacemaker. I’ll explain to you how I see the world in relation to this.
The eights are derived from the center of the gut. This indicates that people make choices based on their instincts! They are not required to have any feelings whatsoever over it. It is not necessary for them to give things any thought. They don’t give things the thought through. As an alternative, people rely on their instincts and their innate intuition to make judgments. This indicates that they are aware of what is going to take place in the next steps. I would argue that 8s are the most perceptive individuals on the Enneagram, and that is a skill without counting the 9s. I would say this without counting the 9s. It is true that people with the 3rd personality have intuition, just like those with other types, but it is not their strong suit. 3s originate from the center of the heart. The choices that individuals make are determined by how they feel about the situation. They are folks who are sincere. From the depths of their hearts, they think and act.
However, despite the fact that 8s may give the impression of being sociopathic and indifferent, this is not anything you should be concerned about. The majority of sociopaths are not harmful. Psychopaths are the ones you should be most concerned about avoiding at all costs.
My next topic of discussion is going to be the wings. Your secondary personality is represented by your Enneagram Wing, which is always a number that is either to the right or to the left of your real number that is located higher on the chart. Take a look at the diagram that is located above. Either a 7 wing or a 9 wing will be carried by the 8 aircraft. Consequently, if you are the 8 w 7, you have the personality type of an 8 and you make use of the 7 wing, which is a secondary personality attribute. A person with an 8 and a 9 will have the 8 personality and the 9 personality (secondary personality). All of this is a tried and true method that has been around for three thousand years. I really did not make anything up. In the event that you are unfamiliar with all of this, I will urge you to just go with the flow and accept it for what it is worth. I will demonstrate it to you.
As it happens, I am a nine-to-eight. As a result, I am comparable to the person or girl whom you despise, but I have exchanged roles. As for me, I do like eights, and naturally, I am a fan of nines. I believe that Trump is an eight; there are those who adore him and others who despise him. He is despised by the media. However, I actually do get eights, and my father had a three personality (he was a three-worth four), so I get you as well. Because of this, I felt compelled to respond to your inquiry about the matter.
To return to the sociopaths and psychopaths, let’s speak about them. Indeed, we own it inside ourselves. It is more accurate to think of it as a defensive mechanism, since we do not always make use of it. On the other hand, if you push an eight or a nine over the brink, you could discover a new definition of insane! One of us could be featured on the news at six o’clock.
The character Jason in Friday the 13th may exemplify traits commonly associated with the classic type 8 psychopath.
… formidable and influential, yet undeniably a ruthless assassin. Following this storyline suggests that someone has wronged Jason in the past. He is pursuing a course of retribution. There are underlying reasons for his actions. In the past, an injustice was done to him, and now he believes that everyone will face the consequences. I understand this. It resembles an understanding of the thought processes behind a killer’s actions.
Generally, it is advisable not to confront or provoke an 8 directly, as this tends to reinforce their behavior. Individuals with an 8 personality derive their energy from engaging in conflict. It would be beneficial to engage an 8 constructively, perhaps by saying, “Do you believe you can manage this challenge?” What you have done is effectively challenge him or her in a constructive manner, which is likely to elicit a response.
Individuals characterized by the number 8 possess comprehensive knowledge of all combat techniques and tools. Consider reading ‘The Art of War’ by Sun Tzu, as it is a significant text to understand for any journey in life. Individuals characterized by the number 8 will confront the challenge head-on and remain steadfast in their resolve. Individuals characterized by the number 8 confront challenges or obstacles directly; they engage immediately. They act without contemplation or seeking counsel — they simply proceed! The 8’s will engage the wall using their heads, resulting in a breach. A bowling ball striking the pins serves as a representation of an 8 personality type.
Do individuals perceive themselves as sociopaths? It is likely. Individuals exhibiting psychopathic traits? It is a possibility. It is difficult to argue against the advantages of having that as an asset. 8s also assume the role of ‘goalie’ in soccer, effectively blocking all incoming attacks directed at the goal post. A strategic manager will employ an 8 to address the company’s challenges — pursue success with determination! It is difficult to find a rationale for anyone to oppose such an opportunity. If the individual in question is a co-worker, it is advisable to seek assistance from the 8 regarding a particular challenge. However, it is advisable to avoid engaging in conflict with them.
While often exhibiting harshness, rashness, and roughness, individuals with the number 8 also possess the ability to show compassion. Observe how they safeguard those in their immediate community. An 8 serves as the optimal guardian, provided you are fortunate enough to have one. However, their protection is selective, focusing on particular individuals, notably the innocent or those regarded as family. The 6 personality type exemplifies the classic Guardian role, whereas 8s selectively determine whom they choose to care for in this manner.
Your question references ‘random ideas that disrupt production.’ The randomness applies solely to the values of 1, 3, 5, and 6. This is due to the fact that these personalities engage in thorough contemplation. They tackle the issues systematically. They are likely to engage in study, conduct research, and adhere to established guidelines. ‘This seems to be an inefficient use of time.’
Individuals characterized by 8’s and 9’s tend to operate based on instinct and intuition, often leading to accurate conclusions. Steps are often overlooked. We lack engagement in studying, researching, and following instructions. We find that perspective unconvincing, as our focus lies not on historical actions but on current and future possibilities. We deviate from the anticipated norms. We operate beyond conventional boundaries, focusing solely on opportunities and the pursuit of maximum potential. Acquiring that knowledge cannot be achieved solely through reading literature or adhering to recommended techniques. The core issue may lie precisely in this area.
“Experience reveals constraints, rather than possibilities.” — Godric
It is essential to thoroughly comprehend the 8. You might be encountering conflicts with the 8. I am providing you with strategies and approaches for addressing that situation. Production is only disrupted if the entities involved are indeed disruptive. Consider a scenario involving an employee who is underperforming. While any personality type can cause disruption, it is advantageous to have an individual with the traits of an 8 in such situations. This is due to your ability to identify the source of the issue. The presence of 8’s is unmistakable; their prominence is quite evident. They exhibit a conspicuous display. If the individual causing issues was rated a 9, it indicates a significant challenge, as their identity would likely remain unclear to you. A 9 is capable of remaining concealed in the shadows. The lack of knowledge regarding the culprit is a more significant issue.
Let’s see what the Enneagram has to offer: an eight is a lion:
Confident, assertive, yet a bit full of themselves. When they head into battle, they want everyone to notice. They come right at you and give a growl to let you know they’re on their way. Some great things about the 8s are that they really stand up for their pride, they show a lot of courage, and they definitely don’t shy away from a fight or a challenge. 8’s are totally ‘die hard’ like in the movie. That sounds really helpful, as long as you know how to use them! A solid manager is likely to want or need at least one 8 on their team. They’re diving into the challenge without a second thought, totally fearless.
Gaze at the 9 w 8 beast. The Bear:
Bears are really strong and powerful, but they can surprise you by attacking from behind when you least expect it. This can be risky because of that. You’ll only find out if they were upset once it’s already too late. People who identify as 9s tend to keep their feelings to themselves. We really don’t need anyone to keep an eye on us; it’s not about being all that proud. But 9 w 8, much like a bear, can also be pretty calm, peaceful, and graceful. We enjoy backing different causes. We’ll hold onto all our experiences because our past really matters to us. Let’s take a moment to think about things. We definitely know how to choose our battles, which helps us come out on top.
Take a look at the 3 w4: The Tiger.
One can certainly observe an abundance of ‘deadly’ elements present in this context. Tigers exhibit a remarkable blend of beauty, grace, and lethal prowess. They are distinctly visible, lacking any form of camouflage. As a feline, their actions are imbued with a distinctive and exceptional quality, reflecting a singular design in all they undertake. Tigers, while displaying their vibrant hues, possess an astute ability to conceal themselves when necessary, meticulously strategizing for their subsequent move.
I perceive a 3 w 2 resembling a Camel:
You’d definitely want them around in a desert, right? They could help you find water or get you out of a tough spot. Camels really do save lives. People with this personality type generally have incredible stamina and can easily go the distance. Camels are really helpful to people.
You already know who you are, but those 3 w 4’s really know how to get things done, and they do it with flair. Three w two is here to lend a hand with your work.
My dad was a 3, and he would work for 5 days, then come home and put in another 2 days of work before heading back to the office. Dad really set the standard, and he hoped everyone would take a cue from him. It seemed like he had a lot of opinions and enjoyed making judgments. At his worst, he acted like an autocrat, deciding what was best for everyone else — and honestly, I wasn’t a fan of that. Since he was a 3, my Dad never really experienced failure. A failure is just a goal that hasn’t been reached yet. He was really optimistic and envisioned a wonderful future. When 3’s are at their best, you can really count on them.
I think you might be a 3 with a 4 wing since 4s tend to be more sensitive and can get a bit carried away with things, especially in relation to your question.
Hey, just keep in mind that everyone has their own perspective on things. There are actually a few different ways to be right. We don’t keep all the methods to ourselves. Become friends with an 8. Encourage them to rise to the occasion in uplifting ways. Make sure to spend some time looking into the other personality types. Once you get the hang of the Enneagram, you start to appreciate the various personalities; each one brings something valuable to the table. Just hang in there. Let’s be understanding.
Hey, don’t forget to give the enneagram a shot today — and keep it going every day!
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